Raisin looks beautiful on you! I don't think it's too dark or bold at all. Since it goes well with your skin and is a muted color (or at least it is on you in my book) I think you could carry it off with dark eyes for an evening look, or even a day look if you don't mind your make up being attention getting.
My sister wears pretty dark eye make up most days (she has dark hair, brown eyes, pale skin, similar to you) and pairs it with pretty punchy lip colors too, colors like Raisin, or bolder reds if she's feeling extra bold that day. But then again, she's the type of girl who will put chucks of red or blue color in her hair, and feels rules are made to be broken!

Needless to say, we have a lot of fun with make up. I can't pull off the bold lips like she does, but my eyes are more often than not rather.....eye catching?
Oh, and love the nails! Where did you get a matte grey color? I wore a matte navy color most of the winter and loved it!