I am in desperate need of help in cutting down my wishlist! As much as I would LIKE to get everything, the bank account, it protests.

Eyeshadow wishlist:
Mixed Metal Palette (Burnished, Alloy, Heather, Papyrus, Patina, Tawny, Wheat Penny)
Eclipse
Truffle
Bare
Cybertron
Fairy Dust
Frosty
Gargle Blaster
Legend
Luxe
Poly
Satin
Sizzle
Slick
Sprite
Superstition
I have:
Groove
Vanilla
Diamond
Platinum
Carbon
Coal
Sapphire
Brown Sugar
Orbit
Intergalactic
Solar
Planetary
Idolize
Chestnut
Fete
Soiree
Cheer
Fire
Lippies wishlist:
Bobbie
Cultured
Modern Poet
Berry Crush
Black Dahlia
Precious
Sultry
Gleaming
Rare Berry
Raisin
I have:
Nectar
Caramel
Breathless
Hot Blooded
Unfortunately, due to the vagaries of Christmas shipping and Canada Post, the only things I have gotten so far are Nectar, Vanilla, Groove, and the GWP Unique (which I ADORE). I find Vanilla too sparkly for everyday and am looking for a better highlight, and Nectar was absolutely perfect.
For background: I'm a medium-skinned Chinese girl (still trying to find a proper colour match, but currently using 6 scoops base to 1 scoop buttery gold, which is too light for me). I do tend to wear colours I'm not supposed to, though, assuming I'm warm-toned -- white, jewel tones, and silver. I rarely -- if ever -- use makeup, but want to change that and experiment, so I've been trying to build up my makeup collection.
For lippies, I am looking for a good nude, a light pink, a plum, and a true red. I was also wondering which of the clear glosses was the most shiny. I would call my lips medium-pigmented, sort of a dusty rose colour, though my top lip is more pigmented/purpley than the bottom.
For shadows, I was wondering whether I should get the Mixed Metals palette or the Stonewashed Nudes clone. I want some "fun" colours, but would like a few everyday staple sort of colours as well. Which of the eyeshadows in the Christmas collection are LE? I might have to go for those first. When do they go down?
I'd also be open to suggestions for blushes, am interested in learning how to "countour" my face (so anything that might work for that?), and am thinking about buying either the flat top brush or the vegan buki brush, although I am currently using a buki brush from B.E.
Right, that was a lot -- sorry! Any help would be much, much appreciated.