Xarata wrote:I have been working- the next time anyone thinks about undertipping a waitress because she wasn't quite perky enough, just remember she could be hiding a grimace of pain in that smile. Sometimes, it's just darn hard to twinkle.
I always try to keep that in mind. I never undettip for not "twinkling" or being perky, but a tip will quickly dwindle away if a waitress is outright rude, brushes off my concerns, or doesn't attempt to do a thing to fix a wrong, which sadly, happens. But I've always been an over-tipper
You know, the more I think about this situation, the angrier I get. Looking into TMJ, this whole thing is falling into place. I admit that it's been a few years since I've been to the dentist, the year before last I couldn't find a convenient one that took my insurance, and last year I didn't renew my dental. But for 2010 I will have an amazing plan under which everything except dentures and braces are 100% covered without even a co-pay, so I intend to get this fully taken care of.
I've been to various doctors for my migraines with no success. Not one ever mentioned TMJ, but this sounds lke a specialist thing, so I can't fault them. I do, however, fault both dentists that I've been to throughout my life. My migraines have been a lifelong thing, for as far back as I can remember. I don't even know when my jaw clicking, and jaw pain/tenderness started, but I do remember constantly going to my dentist years ago because of unexplained pain and being told that I just had sensitive teeth.
What angers me so much about this, however, is going to sound absolutely unbelievable but is 100% true: I suffered a severe tooth infection my entire senior year of high school and didn't get it taken care of until the second sememster of freshman year in college. It wasn't for lack of trying, either. I went to my old dentist several times and told him where the pain was and described it. His answer? I was mistaken about where it was coming from, it was actually wisdom tooth pain and they needed to come out immediately. So he refers me to the "only specialist in the area" that I can go to, 2 hours away. Of course I didn't go there; my parents found an oral surgeon a block away from him, and I had to wait 2 months to get in to get my wisdom teeth out. The whole time I was in constant, excrutiating pain and my days just felt foggy and hazey because I woke up in pain constantly throughout the night. I finally get my wisdom teeth out late in my senior yr of hs, and guess what? They pain never went away. Not for an instant. It absolutely did not subside. I went back to my original dentist. He again said nothing is wrong, and completely disregarded my tears of frustration at that point. A few months later, the filling in my sore tooth falls out. I go back to the oral surgeon, since my dentist was writing me off. Come to find out, I had a severe tooth infection and after it's cleared up, I'll need a root canal. He gives me an antibiotic and says I need to go to a different surgeon, he doesn't specialize in what I need, so I set up an appointment, and for 3 courses worth of antibiotics, my infection kept coming back so quickly and severely that the surgery had to be put off and rescheduled constantly until they ended up having me take my last pill the night before coming in. And at that, they said it was one of the worst infections and I ended up needing more novacaine or whatever it is for someone my size than they have ever seen.
Never mind the fact that since then, that tooth has broken (back in August) because apparently you're supposed to get a crown after a root canal, but no one ever told me this. My mom said that she thought I opted not to get it because I didn't have the money. I would've had the money for it no matter what, I didn't get it because the dentist never told me to. The surgeon had me follow up with my new dentist, and he never alluded to the fact that I needed anything else. Needless to say I'm pretty ticked about that.
But anyway, now that I've established what uncaring, flip dentists I've dealth with... one of them did ask me if I grind my teeth once. I forget if it was the first or second one, but all I know is that it was at least 10 years ago while I was still in school, before college. I told them I didn't know- because until recently, I really didn't know. Sometimes my jaw ached so I assumed I clench my jaw but I didn't equate that with tooth grinding at the time. I thought it would've been the dentist's job to look into it a little more thoroughly though, maybe by asking some leading questions to find out if I'm suffering other side effects other than what he very obviously saw that made him ask in the first place.
Anyway, /end rant I guess. Sorry about that. It's just that the more I think about things the more upset I become... it's hard, when you've suffered migraines for as long as you can remember, to see all the pieces potentially fall into place and wonder what the point of all those visits were if I was paying people who should have helped me, just dance around the issue instead.
In the meantime, I've looked into some at-home tips, such as becoming more aware of when I'm clenching my teeth and forcing myself to relax and place my tongue like the articles say to. I guess I was grinding my teeth last night because my jaw is a bit achey and my teeth feel tender, but I will say that I'm really notice that I do clench a lot throughout the day. Hopefully becoming more aware of it is the first step, until I can see the dentist.
And I won't buy that mouth guard that was mentioned if it has the potential for me chewing more on it than I clench/grind to begin with, but thanks for the suggestion.
You guys have helped me out so much herer, so thanks, everyone
