Rosy1 wrote:I wonder if Seedy might be just what I'm looking for

I'm liking Wistaria except that it's too light for me (I'm wearing it over something that's too dark and together they're great, lol) and I prefer minimal or no shimmer and like sheers. I do best in colors that are right in the middle -- not too light, not too dark -- but if Seedy is sheer enough it just might work. I was looking at the cools instead of the neutrals since there's a lot of blue in my lips and leaning toward Hibiscus, but it's shimmery and not very violet. Figment also looks interesting, but I'm confused about whether or not it's shimmery -- it's described as a shimmer, but then it gets a 0 on the shimmer scale. Simmer looks like a beautiful blue/red on my monitor l but worry that it might be too dark for me. Any thoughts?
Sounds like Seedy may just work for you: it's sheer, so you can make it lighter or darker if you want, and it's definitely more darker in tone than Wistaria (my current go-to blue pink).
I like Hibiscus, but I usually layer it under Shrieking Violet for the full effect and don't wear it by itself. Figment is not really shimmery but has a nice sheen to it (not as glassy/glossy as the liquid ones, but not as shimmery as say Very Berry). It leans more into the plum/wine colors, not really berry.
Unfortunately, I could not make Simmer work for me by itself, and have other ones I use for layering, so I can't say much about it. I think it was just too bright dark pink for me, but not in a good way.
If you like Wistaria, btw, you could try Innocent to cover your dark color instead to get a different effect. They almost look the same color on my lips.
Hope this helps!